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發表於 2012-11-6 14:34:29
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I think the agent should come out a deal and maybe you can propose that, let the girl to come over and live with you for 3-6 months. All expenses on you including small part of the HK$70k. Strictly no sexual activity but you may ask her to do some household. This is to let you all to understand each other more and make a right decision after the provision period. Both parties are allowed to terminate the deal within the provision period. Later on if decided to get married which agreed by both parties, then it will sounds fair. If one party disagree, then you pay her home and the agent should refund 100% part of the HK$70k you had paid (maybe they can charge you a small amount of handling surcharge). The rest of the expenses including air ticket still on you. On financial side it will be not siding on you but you are dealing with a woman's future, who will accompany you in the rest of your life. This deal is not equally fair for both parties in each of their own concern but at least better than not giving a chance for the girl to choose. In this way, there will be less conflict either in your future life or the social core value. No one can point the finger on you because the girl did choose to be with you by her own will and you don't involve with any slavery activity.
Don't trust the media too much. Nowadays a lot of so call 'news' are actually an advertisement. Thousands of sad ending happened and this is the 1st time I heard a paid bride telling that she is happy. Even though it is real, but it will not be the normal case. That's why there were more than once on this thread asking if she is gonna run away. This is what actually happened in real life.
Try to workout with the agent. I can only wish you all the best.
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