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發表於 2012-11-6 06:47:02
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回復 c0179614 #57 的帖子
When talk about 2 persons in relationship, you cannot put it as love based on just what you think you can do and what you feel at the moment. Even if you gonna commit and contribute. Love is easy to spell but it is not easy to achieve.
You must 1st ask yourself, you can lover her for a thousand years but what about her feeling? Why we don't go back to those days' 父母之命，媒妁之言? The reason is simple, let those who are in love to be together. If only 1 side of love, we don't call it as 'in love'.
When a man can let go the woman he loves and let her to go with the one she loves more and has better future, compare to what you are gonna do, it is obviously a contrast of the meaning of love.
Another reason I don't agree with the deal of 'buying' a bride, is because of core value (核心價值) of today's world, especially Hong Kong. Everyone is dying for freedom, democracy, law, human rights, equality, fair, diversity, inclusive and etc (自由、民主、法治、人權、平等、公正、多元、包容等). If buying a bride can be accepted, that's mean the weaker parties has no right to choose their fate. You have money to buy her up, you can promise to love her, you can guaranty her future, then what is the different compare to the coterie election (小圈子選舉) that people went to the street and protest about? If an election is too far to compare, then watch the movie 禁室培欲 (Perfect Education) and see what is the different. Of cause, you don't use knife or rope and must pay money. But both victims face the same fate: they cannot choose the way they wanna live.
Law and regulations exist to bring justice and fairness and the social core value is to end the life confusion. We are modern educated persons and you should know which path you should be heading to. Don't let the urge rules over your conscious. This is the last defense of a humanities being before we all start to pee and shit in open public.
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