散散悶氣

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散散悶氣，看官當聽故好喇，不喜勿插。

幾年前識咗個女仔，發動攻勢後被 rejected，佢話未ready ... okay, no problem. 之後都會 msn 下，我都會答下佢，話晒相識一場。後來佢又主動搵我，見過三四次後D feel 又嚟，又發動攻勢，又被 rejected ... 算! 之後都係泛泛之交咁，過時過節寄下咭。

之後佢又搵我，怕佢又玩嘢無覆。之後又搵多我幾次，我都係搵D無厘頭理由推佢。後來見佢係我不停拒絕之下依然搵我，以為佢有誠意咪見咗次面。呢次之後，咪又試下約佢，不過就盡量當朋友咁。結果就算係朋友式約會，佢都係扭扭擰擰，麻麻煩煩咁。真係怕煩就無再搵佢。三個月之後，咁啱係佢生日，就當比多次機會佢，比多次機會自己，約佢食飯同送份禮物仔比佢。

自此，佢開始個個星期都搵我出街兩三次，好close咁。維持咗三四個月，突然又唔睬我，問吓問吓佢話同我一齊覺得有壓力，其實佢當我係朋友，點點點 … (心諗：手都無拖過，唔係朋友係咩，會有咩壓力？我覺得畀佢屈咗機！)我咪話朋友就朋友喇，妳講清楚我仲覺得舒服好多添。點知佢話講完之後佢好唔開心。頂，妳 rejected 我反而係我開解妳!?

之後果日佢又好似冇嘢咁約我出街，如是者如履薄冰咁過咗大半年。又到佢生日，咪約吓佢，點知又唔睬我，咁我唯有寄份生日禮物比佢先囉。收咗份禮居然無聲無氣，連 sms or msn 講句多謝都無。但係佢兩三個星期前仲問我點解唔約下佢。

PeterPan1979

唔通個女仔甘樣對你係一種娛樂?!

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PeterPan1979 發表於 2011-8-12 16:34
唔通個女仔甘樣對你係一種娛樂?!

哈哈，你問我 ... 我都唔知可以問邊個。真係 god knows!

不過我現在D EQ 高咗好多。哈哈！

ess

80hg 發表於 2011-8-12 15:41
散散悶氣，看官當聽故好喇，不喜勿插。

幾年前識咗個女仔，幾男仔頭性格(表面)幾 nice 咁。發動攻勢，被 r ...

呢個女仔我諗佢係度享受緊你溝佢嘅過程
但係又唔鐘意你,佢繼續揾你係因為唔習慣
你唔睬佢~我係你就死左條心好過

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ess 發表於 2011-8-12 20:38
呢個女仔我諗佢係度享受緊你溝佢嘅過程
但係又唔鐘意你,佢繼續揾你係因為唔習慣
你唔睬佢~我係你就死左條 ...

條心不嬲都死㗎啦。但朋友送份禮俾你，都應該講聲多謝掛。如果我英文好多DD就寧願溝鬼妹。

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ess,

內容梗係精彩，真人真事，仲要無改篇。

ovaries

I have had my fair share. She was a nice woman, educated, pretty, rich family. Never short of men surrounding her.

I dated her on an off and never sure even if I mean anything to her. Again she may enjoy the feeling of being always wanted by men.

Eventually she suggested I should not waste time on her and should look for other women.

We still keep in touch via email after that. In fact without the dating pressure it is quite enjoyable.

18 months later she tried to get close to me. Increasing email, calling each other on phone (long distance call, 9000km apart). Then one day she cannot hold back and ask me directly if I am still interested in marrying her.

I told her I still love her a lot, but I have already found someone else so regrettably I have to turn down her proposal.

wrong timing. If she told me same message 12 months earlier I would move heaven and earth for her. 有緣無份

如果我英文好多DD就溝鬼妹

溝過, 爽快很多, 中意你就直接話俾你知, 要拖手也不是忸怩作態

happyguy321

要明白，在發展其中，被追求的那方固然是佔有優勢，但發展到一定時間，關係都停滯不前。你很可能喜歡的、追求的，只是個無賴而已。
晉朝的《三國志》，「無賴」是解作流泯—「野蠻、撒野和無品的人」。
無賴，是心魔作祟。
誰不想被人愛，誰想要孑然一身﹖
貪，都貪於別人奉獻的，所灌注在自己身上的，矛盾地，面對著自己不喜歡或不能接受的人，卻不想付出。
無賴，都是寂寞惹的禍。不想孤單的渡過時分秒，閒時找個人來陪，收一些短訊，寂寞稍得慰藉。然而，因寂寞而找上一個人，過後只會更寂寞，甚然當無賴過後，會有一絲內疚在心裏頭滲出。

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happygay321 發表於 2011-8-13 17:34
要明白，在發展其中，被追求的那方固然是佔有優勢，但發展到一定時間，關係都停滯不前。你很可能喜歡的、追 ...

請恕我材疏學淺，其實你想噏乜!? 睇到一頭霧水。

ovaries

80hg 發表於 2011-8-13 22:36
請恕我材疏學淺，其實你想噏乜!? 睇到一頭霧水。

在這例子, 個女仔不想單身一人, 所以求其有個男仔關心吓她就很滿足, 但絕不是愛他, 所以樓主feel 唔到互動的愛情. 說穿了, 只當他是救生圈, 就拋出海再算.....

info430

c hing, 聽你噉講, 拖來拖去, 都好長時間, 又無結果, 男兒立志早,米再浪費青春,发展事業好過

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info430 發表於 2011-8-13 22:10
c hing, 聽你噉講, 拖來拖去, 都好長時間, 又無結果, 男兒立志早,米再浪費青春,发展事業好過 ...

我老嘢一件，無青春喇！

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ovaries 發表於 2011-8-12 23:01
I have had my fair share. She was a nice woman, educated, pretty, rich family. Never short of men su ...

“I told her I still love her a lot, but I have already found someone else so regrettably I have to turn down her proposal. ”

愛當前愛你的人，絕對正確。

info430

一句到尾,男兒當自強,踩大油, go go go!!!

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info430 發表於 2011-8-14 12:16
一句到尾,男兒當自強,踩大油, go go go!!!

呢輪潛心炒股炒牛熊，算唔算自強？

info430

玩牛仔熊仔,赢咗算自強,香港除咗金融,冇其它事業自強?

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info430 發表於 2011-8-16 13:33
玩牛仔熊仔,赢咗算自強,香港除咗金融,冇其它事業自強?

有！仲有炒樓。

carvhk

呢條女好自私，浪費人地時間

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carvhk 發表於 2011-8-16 19:06
呢條女好自私，浪費人地時間

香港好多女仔都係咁，佢地唔係專登浪費人地時間，只不過係佢地唔知自己想要D乜，以至成日係度"dull" 圈。

中華沉龍魚

80hg 發表於 2011-8-16 21:47
香港好多女仔都係咁，佢地唔係專登浪費人地時間，只不過係佢地唔知自己想要D乜，以至成日係度"dull" 圈。 ...

我覺得個女仔只係用你打發吓時間，想有人對佢好又唔想負責任，
成日幻想會有又靚仔又有錢又專一嘅男人會溝佢，咁未有嘅時候就搵啲觀音兵打發吓啲時間
冇咗嘅佢又會覺得可惜，你進一步佢又有啲抗拒，香港真係好多哩種港女，麻麻煩煩拖拖拉拉