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發表於 2007-8-20 19:14:34
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Dear Alan hing
First of all, I am from Seattle, US.
I did read all the story...theirs' behavior sounds like they treat you as a "water-fish"..sorry to said that! I guess most girls into this kind of business already told the family and promise to bring lots of $$ back home. First of all, 1) are you a marriaged man? 2) Age? 3) Look like Andy Lau?
If you are already marraiged, I have nothing much to say....If you are still singe with a decent income; i will suggest you to correct theirs' attitude toward you...tell them staright forward how you met with the girl, how you like to be in the future..offcourse with everyone..not only ML..
If you still really love her; open up your heart and ACCPECT everything! and change it!! remember, love and friendship is different! I met a Shanghai call girl here..I did post up something on the site; feel free to visit. I thought I was "sunk ship" in the begining...now I realized she is more as my freind than as a lover..I visit her several times a month..I learn alot from her..toward life and daily living.
I always keep this clear, I am as a customer; she as a provider. I will be happy to see her make enough $ and don't have to do thgis anymore and marry with a nice man. Me; as a "whore-worm", tired of this; marry with a decent woman.. all base on friendship.
Cherish whoever we met..I know it's hard..I still love to hold her little hand.. but at one point, we have to learn how to let it go.
Alan, if you really love her, try again!!look at it as a whole, not just your own perspective!!
Bless you!! |
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