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發表於 2011-2-9 02:12:08
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本帖最後由 kitkatt 於 2011-2-9 02:29 編輯
bell852 發表於 2011-2-8 23:30
小生受教~~ 但可唔可以詳細少少講解一下~~
I really don't have any special techniques ...
It's just that these messages are often brief and it's difficult to interpret the meaning of the message. That's why the medium of SMS generates a lot of anxiety easily. Example:
Man: You looked very nice in that dress last night!
Woman: Thank you!
Just a simple "thank you"? Is the woman too cool? Has the man said something wrong? His praise too mild? Or maybe the woman is just too lazy to type, or is she trying to preserve her nails by not typing too much? Things will be worse for the man if the woman only replies so briefly after 2 hours. These can drive a man crazy.
So I think a man has to make himself NOT to expect too much from the woman's reply. Instead you can leave messages to show your care. Example:
Send a message to her on the morning after a date. Write something like "Did you sleep well? I had a great time with you last night. Hope you felt the same. Take care & have a nice day. See you soon."
It doesn't matter how she replies. Do this from time to time and you will gradually build a favourable impression.
But be warned that you are seeking advice from someone who was not able to keep his beloved, and who will be spending the coming Valentine's day on his own again.
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