沉船四個月,而家浮緊上水面

viva630

我沉左四個月,

精神上, 有好辛苦也有很開心的經歷,   

金錢上, 總數連肉金洗左一萬六千幾...  

人又hurt, 荷包又hurt, 下個月仲諗住過埋空窗去驗AIDS...

而家抽身了, 總算沉過玩過,  

大家有何意見, 我的損失 (感情及金錢上) 算大嗎??  

請給小弟一點意見

也奉勸各bro沉船玩唔過...

matt_wong

我想問點沉法?係邊度識?咁多錢用左係邊?分享下...

viva630

錢一半買野, 一半飲飲食食+酒店+肉金....

rayng881

ching 你架損失 都唔算大啦 可喜你可以抽身

matt_wong

點解突然抽身?其實我覺得曾經開心過便算...無話損唔損失..我覺得會體會到另一方面既野...總之振作一d....天下何處無芳女!

viva630

多謝ray 兄鼓勵...

抽身因為佢成日講大話, 又唔復sms, phone...  當我水魚..., 甘自自然然無甘鐘意咪浮返上來lor...

其實甘都好既... 如果佢做足戲, 迫我沉, 先屈我一輔甘既咪仲大wok... 因我都有上去佢屋企的...
而家我都唔搵佢架啦... 佢搵我咪做個friend, 小心d錢lor....

matt_wong

咁你做了個英明決定了!

愛國初哥

ching, 沉船係好正常ga.
好多巴打都會勸導大家千期唔好沉.因為歡場無真愛.就算我識講當遇到個自己喜歡ga
又覺得合得黎ga,慢慢都會沉落去ga. 同個自己種意ga去拍下拖,睇睇戲,之後開波個種
感覺就好似初戀情人一樣,非筆墨可以形容.

當然每個ching ga 心態都唔同,有d 喜歡天天新鮮,唔會為棵樹放棄個樹林,我有d friend
喜歡5凡離場, 即是最多搵佢5次,之後就搵新野. 但呢種感覺就好似去公羅.

我個人就覺得最緊要就係無傷自己ga經濟同埋自己要睇得開,這當然條女唔可以欺騙
感情同埋用感情黎騙錢,但係如果條女係上班一促就唔值得沉羅,因為上得班ga你就係
好似大家咁一齊排公羅. 都唔知佢係唔係對個個都咁好.

你每個月用左4000唔算多呀,你係香港靚係拍拖食反都唔得啦.
重有一樣就係冇理由隨隨便便就為條女沉ga, 佢一定係有d好ga地方先為佢沉.
你而家浮上黎咪好羅, 如果可以就最好唔好沉羅. 但難保有一天又沉過.

睇開d啦,祝你好運....

doumeki

萬六蚊唔算多啦
大把ching包女一個月都一皮

愛國初哥

viv630 ching,

I have been 沉船before, I spent $7000 a night to celebrate her birthday,
during the party suddenly she cried because of happiness.  I took her to the toilet
and have a big kiss and her eye drops on the face making her dirty. Her heart is in touch
because of my kindness, but we dont have any future because she has a HK boy friend.

As long as you enjoy the time and no harm to your finanical, that is fine. Because those who go
to the public toilet never know about the feeling inside.

angelclaire

I thought all chings would have noticed that, as soon as 囡囡s ask for money, or gift, they are not serious, so why are some bros still sinking their precious boats? This is a business deal, and you try to get what you pay for, and that is the end of the story!

viva630

好多謝愛國初哥的意見,

呢次我真係feel到咩叫歡場無真愛, 其實佢未必係全心當我水魚, 可能佢覺得就手, 始終佢地都係物質主義行先,...

如果你俾佢屈完一頸血, 再等埋佢唔做囡囡收山, 佢真係會跟你既, 但試問又有幾多bro可以為佢地甘付出, 所以歡場真係好難有真愛....

其實4個月裡..因分隔兩地... 只相處好少時間... 洗甘多$$, 主要都係俾佢屈我買野俾佢....好似你講..圍番每個月用左4000係會感覺好d...

但的確係有一齊去玩... 開心過的... 唔係都唔駛去驗AIDS啦....

當買個教訓... 同俾各ching做個借鏡....

saitojohn

原帖由 angelclaire 於 2010-3-7 03:35 發表
I thought all chings would have noticed that, as soon as 囡囡s ask for money, or gift, they are not serious, so why are some bros still sinking their precious boats? This is a business deal, and you t ...

Because some chings feel emotionally empty inside their heart... so they use $$ to buy such fake happiness to enjoy the feeling to having a "girlfriend."

It is easy for you, an outsider, to say these deals are business deals and one should never get sucked into them. But humans, especially guys, are emotional animals and cannot always be rational, particularly when they see a perfect girl that fit their taste in every way. Even knowing that it is a strict business deal, the guy would first try to use money to economically privitize her, and use that time to hope to capture her heart.

This can also be thought of as a strategy of 用金錢換時間.

fatdragon167

沉船無話損失大唔大，感情同金錢都無得計。依家好似好唔抵，過多幾年就會一笑置之。

摩鈴嬌

ching 你回想一下, 你4個月用左一萬六買左"開心"同"一個教訓" 算唔計好貴丫..女大把, 祝你早日搵到條新船

joewinlee

You only spent $2000 a month on gifts, I don't think the girl cut your neck too deep. But is time to find another one.

listenup

沉左仲咁清醒識去驗aids

苦男仔

有時自己開得開心好多野都會吾理....的..好多人都好以你咁真係2大有人在

hong25

精神上, 有好辛苦也有很開心的經歷
罗得起，放得底
永远在爱与痛的边缘

fishyue03

明天會更好。。。。。。。。。或回頭是岸。。。。。。。。。。