究竟男人同女人係唔係真係唔可以淨做朋友？

lz8028

記得N年前有一套戲叫 When Harry Met Sally，當中男主角有一句話，單身男人同單身女人不可能建立長久的友誼（即係冇搞過嘢果種），因為就算兩個人嘅友誼基礎穩固，但係個男人遲早會對女方有性幻想，一旦性幻想主導咗男人嘅腦海，一係兩個上床搞嘢走埋一齊，一係求愛不遂各自分開，否則深層次矛盾一日未解決，友誼基礎都會因為個男人嘅性幻想而慢慢變質。

小弟身邊有一對未拍拖但係識咗十幾年嘅朋友宜家stuck咗係呢個階段，個男嘅又怕唔出聲自己會發癲（唔知佢講精神分裂定係精蟲上腦），又怕出聲被人拒絕冇咗個老友，所以日日搵我吐苦水。。。

大家點睇吖？

Baritone

鍾意嘅就一定要開聲讓對方知道，由其是年青人。年紀大了談柏拉圖式戀愛也無不可。

cc489

好難，男女始終有別

hellstranger

Why not???來自: iPhone客戶端

asd06

Why not??? X2

taiwanson

小“弟”的一個頭,碰上阿囡兩"乳”頭,肯定是有兩頭不到岸心結

六點半

識咗十幾年, 問問可唔可以囉, 唔得就續做好朋友

artlo

相当高難度.

Comered

They both need to settle this issue ASAP.  Otherwise, they are just wasting each other time.

zicoc

我而家都困惑緊
身同感受

igo123

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一男一女相處一齊，無可能只得友誼。
試下問問個女孩子有沒有可以發展下去的機會。

auraheart

好難, 除非係豬扒..
開過波都可以做朋友, 矛問題喎

hilberkimo

其實是有可能的
但這種機緣很少見

mic325

好難，男人始終天生鹹濕，佢冇小小吸引到你，點會keep住有聯絡啊，只要有小小空間，就會對佢有性幻想啦

aiyoaiyo

can be, but not easy for young man, you know the reason la...haha

wark123

男女之間不會有朋友得...我是不相信 = =

milito22

我覺得可以的，不過唔會多

windtear

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男女各自有另一半,先可以長期做異性朋友

kenfung111

唔好玩啦, 咁多年你唔係一個純女性朋友都無呀

layman_of_most

It’s an issue for guys mostly.  The vast females are happy to keep as far as …  

Frankly to say, with very limited exceptions (some very rigid and inherently/ self conflicting criteria have to be complied with), the chance despite varies from guy to guy is rare, slight & remote.


補充內容 (2014-11-9 22:09):
I am talking about real friendship for half a decade or more.  
Friendships for months mere or just a couple of years are not counted, as they are not “testified” sufficiently.