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發表於 2008-2-19 15:23:31
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I think Mr Sawatdee made excellent recommendation out of this relationship as to what Mr Garamon should do or attitude to have.
I'm guessing how Garamon must be regreting now how those hurting words which had come out of his mouth, should have been kept to himself. The premise is, your negative feelings when expressed, will only stir up & arouse more -ve feelings towards to relationship, eerie as it is, like tropical cyclone turning into typhoon. Most people underestimate how words can hurt like arrows. Had Garamon stepped back a bit, the friendship with this Mongolian girl perhaps could have been kept, or an ordinary friendship as Garamon want now. Who knows??
The girl is OK. She is not dishonest from the very beginning. & as pointed out in Sawatdee's masterpiece essays, all girls tend to cheat within their limited working time frame.... & I think the Mongolian girl is already over par!!
Nobody can push the bull's head to drink water. We are not Garamon & certainly won't assimilate what happened between garamon & the mongolian girl. It's easy to point fingers at people, saying they are stupid etc but that doesn't help much. Don;t forget, somepeople pay money to beg the gals to torture them ;)
Of course the capstone of this whole event is money. Again, we are not to judge Garamon. He spent his money willingly, not under duress. He got what he wants already. There is no stupidity whatsoever. E.g. if you're very rich, does it matter to you if you give a ring, or stick to her pocket, a few thousand dollars even when there is no sex trade??
This is a trick to keep relationship with gals in this industry, & very often, the result is not direct proportion to what you pay. Most often, men with abundance tender loving care & money are destined to pay more.
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