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本來我都唔想將我同女朋友嘅事擺上黎，問大家意見. . . .
不過今次，真係好撚煩、好撚無奈！
究竟係我執著想改變佢 為佢好 係我文塞？
定係佢一意孤行 以為自己啱哂 好合理 佢文塞？
PS:有部份係英文對談. . . .請見諒
藍係我 紅係我女朋友
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我搬出去同我系邊度溫書做功課無衝突，我搬出去系因為我唔想同個啲人住，我想自己一個生活。
我覺得starbucks既環境好舒服，好適合我做野，起碼無張床既誘惑。
咁得啦 我錯囉又係
又話搬出去同系邊度溫書做功課無衝突，但係之後又話覺得starbucks既環境好舒服，好適合我做野，起碼無張床既誘惑；又話由中學開始嘅習慣…你呢啲咪自相矛盾囉、呢啲咪衝突囉
今次同安全無關呀…係誠信問題呀
咁唔通我可以住系Starbucks?
無論我住得幾好，系咪自己一個住都好，我都系唔中意留系屋企做野，我都系中意出去做野
咁咪係衝突囉 總之Starbucks先做到功課丫 駛乜哂錢再租出去住 你當果度係時鐘酒店 食痾瞓無其他嘢做囉
所以咪話我錯撚哂
你任何excuses都啱囉
我只系當呢度系一個suitable既working place.
所以咪話我錯撚哂
你任何excuses都啱囉
即系我想做耐啲都唔得?
唔係
你無錯…因為你根本無諗過、無理過任何承諾…想做耐啲功課姐嘛…你無錯喎
除非你嘅should be同around係meaningless 或者係好撚闊嘅time range
我竟然用咗一個鐘黎講啲我錯你啱嘅嘢…………
Still mad?
你無錯丫嘛
你無應承過我任何嘢
You do mean it?or just joking?
你自己諗
It sounds insulting me
Insulting!?
Do you know what you're saying....
Remember what you said last night....
Remember how did you reply me...
DON'T PROMISE or SAY SOMETHING YOU CAN'T DO IT
Sorry babe
I just want to work a bit longer...becoz I've owe a few hw...well maybe you think I can't work at home is an excuse,but I'll be rilakkuma at home....you know...I'd sleep if I lay down....n it's real I really can't work at home
I think home is a place for relaxing n resting,that's why I don't like to work at home
Promise is Promise
Reason is Reason
Excuse is Excuse
Promise can never be break
Excuse can never be a Reason
What is reason? Is fact, reasonable, truth. But never a habit.
Really can't work at home coz you would sleep if lay down4 and don't like to work at home…is a fact? Is reasonable? It's maybe a truth, but it's obviously is a habit!
But this time is about Promise, just like everytime before.
But the point is I don't think I did promise anything.you asked me when will be home,then i just give you an about time,it may be vary.
If you think it's a promise,then I'm speechless
In fact,I don't know how long I'll stay,till 1700 may be,1800,1900,2000 are also possible.
You don't think you give me any promise? Really?
Lets think about what happened within March and what you said to me
And every time I didn't ask for a exact time...Right?
You could tell me before 2000....right?
You're speechless?
That should be me, I shouldn't remember so many things....so I won't remember any kind of promise....
Or I won't point out any of your fault.....
Ok I know what to do next time
No...it's me
I should keep an eye on "Promise"
If you say something without saying "It's a promise", even your meaning is, I shouldn't take it seriously.
Could you explain why must you do your homework outside first
Coz I can't concentrate at home
Too many temptation
N distractions
LOL
Home could never be more temptation than outside....it's your habit since you used to do your homework outside...it's a mentality problem you created from the first day
Just like I tattooed once before, I think I remember how pain is it or maybe more painful than I though. But when I really tried again....it's just a mentality effect....it's not that pain at all....
You understand?
?????
心理陰影 或 將記憶放大
...
你之後一直喺出面做
有冇再試過留喺屋企做 一段長時間 遠離誘惑 騷擾源頭？
但效果唔明顯
有試過但效果唔明顯 即係都得 咁就唔係can't 係don't want to don't like to not willing to啦
仲有係幾長先時間先 三個月至半年以上？ 而且唔係形住"有誘惑、有騷擾 一定做唔好"嘅戒心做喎
而且何謂明顯先…
如果形住有誘惑 騷擾喺隔離 一定唔得咯
如果無合適方法 仲唔會得啦 結果又覺得做唔到
Whatever
Whatever? 即係你點都唔撚再試? 嫌我煩住你呀?
你講過呢啲既說話我爸媽前幾年都講過，我唔想到今日仲要同你傾呢個話題。我想系邊度做野做到幾點系我問題。我講得個時間太早系我唔岩，對唔住。我無同你講我去邊要你擔心，對唔住。請你原諒我。
但點解由「誠信」問題變左依加系我缺點既問題？
我無講過係你缺點問題 係你逃避正面面對問題
你前幾年係咁 你就以後都係咁?即係喺你角度 人係十年如一日 有唔應該十年都唔應該落去?幾年前嘅你 同現在嘅你 思維 經歷 周遭環境 人都係同一樣?
係你問題…係丫…一生都係…即係無需要理我啦…我點都管你唔到…幫你改唔到啦…
我想要嘅唔係嘻嘻哈哈嘅玩味感情囉 係你有錯 我提出幫你改 我有壞習慣 你提出幫我改 希望大家一齊成長嘅長久愛情囉
I though you're gonna ignore me
....nope
But you know I was sleeping that time-.-
I can't reply you ga wor
I didn't mean that
Ignore what I said
.....still I can't reply at that time
即系我曲線解決左個問題都唔得？
I didn't mean you can't reply....
你呢啲唔係曲線解決囉
搵第二個方法遮蓋第一個唔係曲線囉
用第二個方法就唔岩？咁萌塞？
我文塞?你個方法係啱…係合適 我會唔會咁撚哂氣呀?呻多兩句返工辛苦或者講笑哄你仲好過啦…
方法係好多…但係你依個一定唔係最適合囉…同斬腳趾避沙蟲一樣
治標唔治本
我文塞你會同我一齊? 仲要9個月? 兩個月都辛苦啦下嘛?就係中要害你先嫌我煩
一定要用第一個？一定要系屋企做功課？
系屋企做效率低，但系出去做我效率高好多
地方係第二個問題 源因係第一個
擺明係心理影響啦咁樣
系
如果唔系我唔話我自制能力低
即係要人親身親手幫你提高返自制能力
咁就唔系自制啦
你自己做唔到丫嘛 就要他人幫你提高嫁啦
咁你想點?
唔好每次唔夠講就問我想點…我想你點係咪一定做到先?
我想你提高自制能力 解決所謂誘因、騷擾源頭 以後喺屋企做功課
以上係我應你問題 我想咁…
但係真正問題係 我可唔可以想點就點 同你肯唔肯 得唔得先
如果我系咁中意留系個間屋我spring break就唔會呻悶要出去玩啦
依家個問題唔係鍾意定唔鍾意 係你最底嘅自制能力 同埋依家問題起因係[做功課]點解一定要出去做? 而唔係如果悶,點解唔可以出去玩…你知唔知你將兩個問題放埋一齊呀…我從來無唔批准你出去玩!我亦無咁嘅能力
你功課喺屋企做…之後時間悶可以出去玩…明唔明個界線呀
咁點解我一定要企屋企做功課？
又要重頭 重新講一次？
我決定左出街做唔系屋企做有我既原因，你覺得系藉口就藉口啦我唔想再同你嘈。但系我已經決定左，而且會實行，你話我固執又好文塞又好，我決定左系咁做，後果我自己負責。
即係你明知個問題存在 係壞習慣 都唔正面解決 都唔改啦
我以後講任何嘢你都我行我素啦 我講嘅都係尻嘅 廢嘅 假嘅 不可信 不值考慮 不採用嘅
咁我以前所有壞習慣都可以繼續啦依你咁講
我講任何嘢都對你無用 我講咩都無意思啦
我都唔知點解你唔俾我出去做系都要系屋企做
呢句應該係我講先啱掛?
我唔明你點解係都要出去做唔留得喺屋企做…喺屋企做隻手突然會郁唔到!?定係你一喺屋企拎啲功課會突然識行識走!?
可能我窮啦…由細到大都喺屋企做功課…無論阿爺聽馬幾大聲、親戚打麻雀幾嘈定新年有人黎無枱做要喺將床做，都無問題一樣做得哂。
又或者，我喺你心目中嘅位置一直都唔夠高，一言一語都改變唔到你甚至毫無影響力啦…
呢樣唔關窮唔窮事情。你叻，可以做到，但系我系屋企唔得，好易分心，走去訓覺走去搵野食，搞呢樣搞個樣，人地開個電視睇我又睇埋一份。但系出到街好唔同，陌生既環境我先會專注到！
我無試過系屋企做咩？梗系有啦，個個細細個都系屋企做功課嫁啦，我都系。到中學我先知我既問題系邊，咁我咪做其他方法完成囉。work喎，有效率喎，咁我咪keep住囉！
如果唔係因為我窮…咁我真係諗極都唔明…點解一定要出街先做到功課喇…
不過你又可以提出問題原因喎…但係就話死都改唔到…果啲原因真係咁恐怖?咁難改?定係你根本唔想改…無心改呀?
我咪話你叻囉
依個唔係叻唔叻嘅問題…你都識講個個細個都喺屋企做嫁啦…咁咪係囉…得你一個會分心?得你一個屋企有床?得你一個屋企有嘢食?得你一個屋企有電視?
根本由頭到尾你都無諗過喺屋企係可以做到功課 認為一個個理由就係令到你喺屋企做唔到功課嘅原兇 而出街做就快好多喎 集中好多喎 其實根本就係一個條件反射 一個對比 到依家變成一種依賴 唯有唔喺屋企就邊度都一定做到功課 講到底其實都唔係地點問題 係你個心點諗
如果個個都有屋企可以溫到書既話起自修室黎做咩？點解exam period咁多人爭個位用？唔系想專心啲咁系想點？
你無錯…自修室丫嘛…係啲人唔想補習或唔需要人幫之下自行溫書…係靜啲 容易集中啲…而且通常係喺學校或圖書館內…從未!從未聽過Starbucks內有自修室或自修範圍
唔通sbc就唔可以溫書做功課或者溫書？
幾多人會系sbc溫書咁唔通佢地又有問題？
我無話唔可以喺Starbucks做功課或者溫書…亦唔敢話佢地有問題 但係你所講嘅原因 同 你將starbucks同自修室相提並論就係問題
待續. . .
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