《做一個快樂和有尊嚴的沉船客》

badGuy0427

我都好同意各ching架見解~~~~~ ching你可以用令一種方式去照顧佢對大家都會好Ｄ

sawatdee

原帖由 二間 於 2008-4-22 01:00 發表

                               
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我都會強迫自己相信, 一定總有一天會介意佢的過去..

如果有緣份, 就做一世朋友都可以照顧佢  (我估, 點都好過沉船後人財兩失呱)

...好男人的典範....

20063

多謝晒師兄分享 救到不少兄弟 可能包埋我
將來 多謝晒師兄

sawatdee

原帖由 20063 於 2008-4-30 15:51 發表

                               
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多謝晒師兄分享 救到不少兄弟 可能包埋我
將來 多謝晒師兄

....唔洗客氣.....有晒心理準備先沉....就打死無怨....

joetam2046

原帖由 sawatdee 於 2008-4-11 20:40 發表

                               
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.......在我眼中有3種囡囡....第一種.....是初出茅廬....剛剛進入這行業...對客人的介心不是很重.....仲會相信歡埸中有真愛.......

......第二種....進入這行業己有一段時間....己經 ...

講得好!沉船客別自作多情!

Lynch

PUSH

hahe

A beautiful essay. This is the paragraph that is the most difficult for me to understand.  Don't think I get the meaning after reading it several times.

當歡場中的 "愛情" 是為了某種商業形式而存在，將二種社會階層的人 "強制性" 地縛在一起時，雙方對 "愛的嚮往"，"對情的渴求" 都可能是不一致，因此她們都會視這些為 "背叛的理由"，這種 "背叛" 是為了逃避這種愛情，逃避了這種愛情所帶來的所有關係。她們有拒絕被傷害的本能，當她們無法再將這個空間、這種形式上的愛情視為 "愛的最崇高形式" 來看待的時候，就會出現無法避免的 "背叛"。這種 "背叛" 又分為兩個對立面，一則是對 "愛情形式上的背叛"，一則是對自己 "人性上的背叛"，這樣 "背叛" 本身就是個矛盾的詞，因為事實上愛情與人性本身是互為表裏的，所以她們可以選擇 "背叛愛情"，也可以選擇 "背叛自己.

Hope someone can enlightening. Many thanks. ----  read it another time, still too deep!!

Civic-Type-R

原帖由 hahe 於 2008-6-24 00:04 發表

                               
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A beautiful essay. This is the paragraph that is the most difficult for me to understand.  Don't think I get the meaning after reading it several times.

當歡場中的 "愛情" 是為了某種商業形式而存在，將二 ...

OK dude...I shorten the meaning for u....it is saying that because the girls work and live in a different society than us, they have the right to protect themselves from falling in love with the customer. Even if it means betraying others or betraying themselves and their true feelings. The Love that exists is only meant for an extra enhancement to the product/services u are receiving in the sex industry, just like a way of commercial marketing, to make the product/service look and feel better that's all but should not be anything more than that and not taken seriously. Because the way u view and expect what love is is different to how the girls view and expect it, and their view is influenced by the industry because they work in this industy they know they cannot trust customers to fall in love with them for real. Therefore they choose to betray and deny these facts. So dun take their love so seriously because it's part of their service, otherwise u're the one that gets hurt. Hope that helps u understand it now.

[ 本帖最後由 Civic-Type-R 於 2008-6-24 12:18 編輯 ]

jerrylau1231

開心咪得,沉唔沉已經唔係問題了

sawatdee

原帖由 macausexsex 於 2008-6-26 01:01 發表

                               
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Then how are you with your ship relationship now?

.....咁鐘意問.....又唔你講下自己既野.......

一流一

有尊严地去爱...才是真快乐!