excuse to earn money, with ex girl friend so what, I can confirm the firl with boy freind in University. elder than girl so what, husband elder then wife it is so common in village???? those are not excuse.
just excuse to earn moeny from stupid and non-handsome men.
the stupid is not get the marriage ceritificate before pay "彩禮款10萬元,“三金”首飾" OTHERWSIE no rape, since in China marriage seems there is no rape fro husnamd to wife wor. just happen in US.