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發表於 2012-2-11 03:18:14
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If you are just a ordinary person, lucky marry with Mr./Mrs. perfect who is rich, handsome/beauty, charming, and etc. henceforth you and your love have a wonderful life.
 wake up ~~ we are not talking about the story "Cinderella".
people grow up in different background, so people have different value, different behavior, different thinking. just like oldcake said" 大千金嫁了窮秀才，天下不大亂才怪！" she wants a gift -a classic Hermes bag. you think Hermes bag is toooooooooooo expensive, but she think it just a normal bag. you wants she can clean house and cook for you, but she never did that before. does it drive you crazy? that is the truth in our life. did you ever see any couples argued with each other because they are fan of different foot ball terms. even just a little difference, people still need to communicate with each other to find a common consensus. that's why I believe every couples have to continue communicate with each other in whole life. therefore, try to find one you love with close value and thinking. that is "現代的「門當戶對」 by oldcake". otherwise, you have to try very very hard to communicate with the one you love until both of you can understand each other (include both family, friends, and all relate with your love). |
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樓主: oldcake
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發表於 2012-2-10 08:06:36
