無論愛不愛，下輩子都不會再見

selwyn

無論愛不愛，下輩子都不會再見。

香港電臺知名主持人梁繼璋給兒子寫過一封信，這封信很快流傳於各大網站，很多父親看後感觸很深，我覺得不只給兒子，其實適合所有人看！

我兒：寫這備忘錄給你，基於三個原則：
（一）人生福禍無常，誰也不知可以活多久，有些事情還是早一點說好。
（二）我是你的父親，我不跟你說，沒有人會跟你說。
（三）這備忘錄記載的，都是我經過慘痛失敗得回來的體驗，可以為你的成長省回不少冤枉路。

以下，便是你在人生中要好好記住的事：

（一）對你不好的人，你不要太介懷，在你一生中，沒有人有義務要對你好，除了我和你媽媽。至於那些對你好的人，你除了要珍惜、感恩外，也請多防備一點，因為，每個人做每件事，總有一個原因，他對你好，未必真的是因為喜歡你，請你必須搞清楚，而不必太快將對方看作真朋友。

（二）沒有人是不可代替，沒有東西是必須擁有。看透了這一點，將來你身邊的人不再要你，或許失去了世間上最愛的一切時，也應該明白，這並不是什麼大不了的事。


（三）生命是短暫的，今日你還在浪費著生命，明日會發覺生命已遠離你了。因此，愈早珍惜生命，你享受生命的日子也愈多，與其盼望長壽，倒不如早點享受。

（四）世界上並沒有最愛這回事，愛情只是一種霎時的感覺，而這感覺絕對會隨時日、心境而改變。如果你的所謂最愛離開你，請耐心地等候一下，讓時日慢慢沖洗，讓心靈慢慢沉澱，你的苦就會慢慢淡化。不要過分憧憬愛情的美，不要過分誇大失戀的悲。

（五）雖然很多有成就的人士都沒有受過很多教育，但並不等於不用功讀書，就一定可以成功。你學到的知識，就是你擁有的武器。人，可以白手興家，但不可以手無寸鐵，謹記！

（六）我不會要求你供養我下半輩子，同樣地我也不會供養你的下半輩子，當你長大到可以獨立的時候，我的責任已經完結。以後，你要坐巴士還是Benz（賓士），吃魚翅還是粉絲，都要自己負責。

（七）你可以要求自己守信，但不能要求別人守信，你可以要求自己對人好，但不能期待人家對你好。你怎樣對人，並不代表人家就會怎樣對你，如果看不透這一點，你只會徒添不必要的煩惱。

（八）我買了十多二十年六合彩，還是一窮二白，連三獎也沒有中，這證明人要發達，還是要努力工作才可以，世界上並沒有免費午餐。

（九）親人只有一次的緣分，無論這輩子我和你會相處多久，也請好好珍惜共聚的時光，下輩子，無論愛與不愛，都不會再見。





你可能看過好幾次，但每看一次都會有新收穫的，因為人都很健忘！
這些話也不一定是講給子女聽的，其實對每個人都是一種提醒！

假波男

看了這個後, 我寫了一篇英文的,
給我的認我及不認我的兒女:

My Child,

For three reasons, I am writing this memo to you:
1. Life is full of  surprises. Who knows how long one can live . Some words are
    better spoken out early than late.
2. As you father, if I don't say it, who else would ?
3. This memo is based on my experience, learned by the hard way through failures. I simply hope that you don't repeat my path.

Here they are, which I hope you would remember for the rest of your life.

1. Never mind too much those who do not treat you well. Except me and your mum, no one else
    has the obligation to be nice to you. As for those who treat you well, be grateful and treasure
    them well. Be cautious though, that there are someone else out there, being nice to you for
    a wicked reason. So, don't treat him or her as a real friend too soon.

2. No one is irreplaceable, nor is there anything which you need for your whole life. Remembering
    this point would help you overcome difficult times when you lost your treasure or
    someone you love.

3. Work-hard-play-hard is a good philosophy. It takes, however, some good skill to strike
    a balance between the two.

4. Love is a feeling which might change with time, environment, or age. If you find someone
    who loves you for the rest of your life, congratulations. More often than not, your love would
    leave you, one reason or another, actively or passively. If that happens, be patient, let the
    medicine of time heal you. Your pain would fade as your soul precipitates. Love is beautiful,
    but don't have too high an expectation, nor over-exaggerate the pain of breaking up.

5. It is true that many successful people have not had fully-programmed education, but it does
    not mean you could succeed without working hard at school. Knowledge is your best weapon.
    You can't fight any war without a good weapon in this business world.

6. Money is important, but not necessarily the top priority item on your list of Values of Life.

7. Keep your promise, but don't expect others keep theirs. You could do others a favour,
     but don't expect others return theirs. You would be very unhappy if you don't see this point.

8. No one wins all the time. There are moments of life that are bound by failures. If  you fall, stand
    up again, brush away the dust, start walking again and be more careful next time.

9. You could have lots of friends to play with. You could have lots of work to do that you hardly
     find the time. But remember your one and only one father is missing you. From time to
     time, write him an email, at least leave a note on MSN, Gmail, or Facebook just to say "HI".

With Love from
Daddy.

somejack2000

唔錯唔錯~~~
多謝分享啦~~~

蕭塞豐乳中

(九)親人只有一次的緣分，無論這輩子我和你會相處多久，也請好好珍惜共聚的時光，下輩子，無論愛與不愛，都不會再見。

永遠無法再見.... 想愛已不能愛....

shiang987654321

人總是婉惜自己失去的,卻不曾珍惜自己擁有的.....
希望大家看了之後都可以好好把握
共勉之

heartman

唔錯!!!
好好的文章.....

魚魚

愛一個人, 愛一件事, 愛任何東西.......
是否可以永遠延續, 相信沒有人可給答案,

所以人生在世時,
能懂得珍惜這短暫的時光,
懂得如何去愛惜任何事物,
這才是精結的所在.