喜歡關係轉變成朋友關係

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windtear 發表於 2013-9-12 17:42

                               
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男女之間,沒有純粹友誼
只係睇你幾個帖,都覺得你兩個都並非真係當對方純粹朋友

男同女
係可以有純友誼的
不過唔係咁易handle咁解

kingofjohn2004

既然相處得開心
何必執著成為朋友關係?

windtear

文員 發表於 2013-9-14 10:51

                               
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男同女
係可以有純友誼的
不過唔係咁易handle咁解

或者咁講,兩個後生唔醜的男女之間冇純友誼
你可以唔做超越友誼的行為,但無法控制自己唔會偶然係內心有少少遐想,不經意間都會有霎那感覺
舉例來講,你的異性好友(唔算醜樣)走光,你都會條件反射地望,潛意識有瞬間當左佢係"可食用女性",然後立即用理智鎮壓自己,用返朋友心態

patrickssq

Rick_Meiji 發表於 2013-9-13 12:15

                               
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I guess I m not, but I m sure that she does cuz I m not her type la...

It seems that you are struggling with two thoughts:
1. You are not her type, and
2. her past work experience is a negative factor
So is it that you worry even you try, the chance for a steady GF relationship is too low?
If you really know your own question then you can find the answer yourself.  

Rick_Meiji

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Yeah, you just made the clear points.
Actually, I am worrying the first point more than the second.
However, there are something happened in the past 3 days, and I find out I'd better stay at the distence of a friend cuz, I will be happier in that way and she should also feel in the same way.

You did make good points to me. Thanks for your sharing.

Yellowcolour

回復 windtear #23 的帖子

絕對認同

heihei2005

難得有個好朋友